Is it still customary for a man to call a lady after a date? What are the rules anyway? I mean, so what if I didn't offer any sexual favors at the end of the date. In fact, I refused to succumb to his sexual advances. Trust me, he wanted to advance! But he has not called since Saturday night.
I've discussed the situation with one of my closest friends. We agree that if "Mr. Gorgeous" (and he IS gorgeous) does not call me simply because I did not put out after dinner, then he already has no respect for me and should not be pursued. I will not grovel and chase this man! Still, he and I have a LOT in common.
Weighing the pros and cons, I was willing to wait a few days for a phone call from him, but my dear friend (unnamed) said that I was way more generous than I should be. Do you agree?
Dating is difficult!
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I would like to offer words of wisdom from a male's perspective but I can't -- it's a tough call on your part (not one I would want to make). You can jump in the sack and enjoy the ride for all it's worth without thoughts of tomorrow (nothing wrong with good sex). Or you can do so with hopes that there will be a meaningful tomorrow...or you can simply wait for a phone call that may never come. Would I pursue him if he doesn't call? NO WAY. His not calling says it all.
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